MOTHER

I wanted to write something really cute about mine mother, MOMS.

I exactly don’t recall since when I started calling MoMs, initially she used to get very angry when I called her that but slowly she got used to it. I know she can’t read this stuff but still I don’t’ mind writing, and also I write because I don’t want her to know few things written here.

As far as I can remember mine childhood, though I don’t remember much, but mine moms used to be tough on us. My moms at first place is uneducated but from heart she’s fully educated in matter of relationship n feelings. She can never say ‘NO’ to help anyone even if the person she doesn’t know. She even doesn’t try to know. She’s always helpful to all, might b that’s the best part I love about her and I always have that influence; Never say ‘NO’. I am proud of her, she helps all the needful people in our society. Oh one more thing, she’s very very religious & superstitious. She gets up early in the morning at 4 am and until 7 am she’s busy in Puja Room; worshiping god. She never eats outside; only cooked from our family members. We always have discussion in this matter n interesting thing, she still wins, and I love to lose.

Serve the needful, leave everything on God, whenever help needed GOD is always there…

She still lives in the old ages life, her life hasn’t become smarter and advance. So whenever I have to talk to her, I have to call her on landline phone at home. She doesn’t know how to dial mine number and has to wait for father or mine brother to contact me. I know its just phone call away but sometime it takes days, weeks & even months to be in touch. But when I call her, I say I am fine and then she has a lot to talk about our house, domestic animals, neighbors etc. Though she knows I don’t like talking too much but she keeps talking and talking I just keep the mobile on loudspeaker and listen, do I have a choice. At last she will be the one to say that not to spend too much money on mobile calling home.

I am not good with people’s feelings and I don’t care much about. I can ignore people just in a flip of a switch.

Due to mine rough childhood, I am not emotionally attached with people around me. I am not good with people’s feelings and I don’t care much about. If am hurt or angry then I can ignore anyone just like a flip of a switch on and off, but when it comes about mine moms, things doesn’t go my way however strong I might be. Even though I meet her once in a year but still I have nothing much to say the first I see her.

As any other child I also wanted freedom, having mine own way to live life and always awaited for the moment until I got an opportunity to do job in India. I thought mine days had come and I had good time enjoying mine freedom far away from home. Since then till now I am away from home though in few months or a year I meet her. I am quite often not so good even in relationship with my mother though I respect her a lot. Well that’s not the problem that I don’t give importance to her. I always admire my moms, for whatever the moment i spend with her though m not so often close to her. Sometime rude(rarely), sweet, angry n quite often irritating her and funniest of all when I used to cleat her long hair; i enjoy… We still use wood and gas too to cook food and little smoke makes me suffocate, still I sometime enter kitchen just to help her while cooking… But me going abroad made me cook dishes in a better way. It’s been nearly a year I haven’t met her. We never use onion and garlic while cooking, but despite that food looks tasty and I always say its tasty but the fact is I like outside food (other’s home cooked food). I have never told her that food cooked at home isn’t as tasty, because I don’t want to disappoint her.

I don’t smoke due to suffocation, but I sometime drink, I don’t know if she knows.

It would be unfair just to say I don’t miss mom’s hand cooked food, especially roti n kaadhi (yougurt made). She makes only for me, even though none of the family members likes it… I am not that ‘live to eat’ type of guy so I eat whatever given either my favorite or not… Life is full of ups and down. She is getting old day by days, having hearing problem, becoming toothless, cracked feet, diabetic & low blood pressure but despite all she is always busy with her household works. She is very careless about her health, must say I am her son so I guess I have that too. Sometimes I wake in middle of night and makes me worry that while am not with her and something bad happens. For everyone their mom is the best mom in the world but for me she’s a woman whom I am blessed to have in mine life for her unconditional love and care and all her sacrifice. She has done a lot for me of what I am today. She still has a part for all I am & I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral I received from her.

Actually bhanne kura haru ta dherai tiye tara maan ka kura maan mai rakhnu bes hola.. sayad yesai ma mero faida cha… love u n miss you, MOMS!!!

My Pet

 I was recently watching a crime based TV series. about a Detective who solves crime with the help of his Supersmart Dog. So why write something about mine own super-smart boy. I love coming home – whether after several weeks or five minutes – and having my “boy” run to greet me. My dog smiles brightly as his tail wags a mile a minute, jumps right into my arms and climbs upto my shoulders. Having to sense me, my voice from miles apart. Even though most of the time being tied and left alone, when I return home, he is the happiest! He’ll jump all over me, lick your face wet and sticky and sometimes, even bark out of joy.

Never have anything to say, but maybe that’s exactly why we love him so much.
He  won’t yell at me…he won’t NOT talk to me because he’s left alone all by himself… He wouldn’t even sulk…

I’ve always had pet and can’t imagine life without. The kind souls love you unconditionally, are grateful for every moment of your time, and have the uncanny ability to brighten the worst of days. We fell in love with him instantly. He’s gorgeous and has the most wonderful disposition. He eats veg & non-veg both and has never learned a single trick(little trained by myself), other than taking care of the whole house(including cattle).

My mom has been dying for a “hybrid dog” for years and he finally showed up one day. I came to know through my friend that a friend had few puppy in his house and we offered to adopt one of them. He is as affectionate as can be, loves playing football, jumping over the bed & sofa, cuddling under the sheets, and racing to be the first with me.

Though leave him locked up all day in the house, he shows selfless love which is unconditional. There’s no doubt about this that it’s the most faithful and loyal creature around. But this also remains a fact that, he loves you regardless of who you are and what you are as a person. As long as you love him, he’ll love you back. Even if you yell at him, he’ll come running to you at the slightest hint of softness in your voice. If you don’t feed him on time, he’ll never complain. If you are upset, he’ll sit right next to you and hear you out. If you cry, he’ll lick your tears away. If you want a companion for early morning walks, he’ll be at the door before you even tie your shoelaces. If you sleep with the doors open, he’ll be up all night, staying on guard.

 
Owen. Nickname: Monkey Boy. He loves climbing as high as possible, in attempts to attack (jump over) me. He come flying from across the house when he hears a door open, in hopes of venturing outside; however, when he does get out, he just stands there, waiting for any member of the house to go along with him. Owen is a risk-taking adventurer, but he balances it with heavy doses of affection. He enjoys sprawling across the table(especially when someone is working), watching people across through the window, tackling with small child, eating and then knocking over houseplants, and climbing on people’s shoulders, heads, and backs.
And most importantly, do NOT adopt a pet if you have to hit him to make him do something for you. What would you do if someone you love hits you every time  you are given a piece of work?
I absolutely adore my pet! They can be naughty and troublesome at times –biting the cattle, those comes to our paddy field, whoever tries to run on the road, running after vehicles but they are so easy to forgive. I know that having pets has enhanced and continues to benefit my life. Pets are loving, loyal, trusting, forgiving, and really have so much to offer their humans. The whole locality feels secure at night when my Owen is awake. 

And don’t forget LOVE is the most important ingredient. Because love conquers all!
FOR YOU: Sorry couldn’t bid you my final farewell, before you left this world in my absence. I know you can’t read. But if you could you’d know that I really love you a lot. And if you could read, you would also know that I don’t make you sit on my lap so that you lick my face; All sticky & wet. But hey, I love you & Miss you a lot. May your soul rest in Peace. You’ll truly be remembered for ur loyalty, aggressive & mischievousness. Each moment i reach home, it’ll always remind me of your absence.